Christmas

Well, the saying is true. Christmas with kids is so much fun. On Christmas Eve we went to church and Brayden did so well in church. He enjoyed the music and listened so well. Then we went to my parents house and enjoyed our traditional dinner of pancakes and ham. Then we opened presents and Brayden enjoyed handing out the gifts and of course opening his. The next morning we woke and opened our gifts as a family and Brayden was thrilled at his train. It was so great to see him excited about getting the one thing he wanted for Christmas. We enjoyed a fairly relaxed morning of just playing. Then we had Jim's family over for presents at 2 and more family came at 4 for dinner. All in all it was a great day and we are truly blessed.
Today we branched out and did our returns and purchased the rugs and entertainment center we have been waiting on. We used our Christmas money and it will be nice to have our house even more homey. So, now we will slow down and get into our new routine and get the things finished that need to be done for our little girl to arrive.
Merry Christmas!!

Simplicity

So, I am a very simple person. I don't own fancy things, dress fancy or wear lots of makeup or anything like that. I like my simple life. I keep a clean house that the other day I was given a great compliment on. Now to some this compliment would be an insult but to me it made me happy and even more content. My grandparents came over to see our home. They are from Canada and hadn't seen it since we remodeled. My grandpa was talking about how he hates to vacuum there home. My grandma has stuff everywhere he says he can't vacuum well there. I said well we don't have lots of stuff so he was welcome to vacuum my home anytime he wanted and he said, Kristin, your house is beautiful. It has the basics but not a lot of clutter and stuff. That is the best compliment. I love that people can come to our home and feel welcome and comfortable but not overwhelmed by stuff. That kids can come and we don't have to worry about why it is quiet cause there isn't a lot that they can get into that would be hurt.
I am also reading a bood called "The Treasure Principle" that just keeps reminding me that the stuff on the earth isn't ours to keep anyway. So, to remember to store up your treasures in Heaven and not on earth. Isn't that a great release to know that everything her is temporary so focus on the relationships and just being, instead of on how much we can attain.
Thank you Lord for all that you have given me. I am truly blessed.

Home sweet Home

Isn't funny how when you have high expectations of an evening it never goes as planned. Last Friday night was a big Remax (where Jim works) party in Portland. It was a dinner and dancing and was with the theme "It's a wonderful life" Well, Jim insisted I go and buy something nice to wear and he got a new shirt for his suit. My mom came and picked up Brayden for the night and we headed off. We arrived at the party and the decorations were beautiful and the food was good. They had a buffet style meal. Which was fine. Then the company president started speaking and the room echoed and he tried to do something with the movie but we couldn't even hear what it was. Then the band/comedy team got up. They kept saying come and dance and then part way through the song they would stop and try and tell jokes. They were singing cool old songs but they did so terribly. So, we ended up leaving early. It was very disappointing. So, we were going to head off to dessert with some other couples that couldn't handle the music either. (Yep, not enough dessert for everyone at the party) Well, we don't know Portland all that well and it took us awhile to find a place and then couldn't find a place to park, so we all said goodnight and we headed to our hotel. The Benson. Yes, it is a fancy hotel in downtown Portland. The lobby was beautiful and we were so excited. Our last night away before baby. At least as far as we know. Well, the room was nothing grand and the bed was incredible hard. And even being on the 7th floor the noise down below was to much. So, needless to say we didn't sleep well. We had been excited to sleep in. Brayden gets up at 6. But at 6 I asked Jim if he was awake (I could tell he was) and I turned on the T.V. We were showered (which didn't take long cause the tub wouldn't drain) and checked out by 7:30 and off to breakfast. That is were we really started enjoying ourselves. We ate breakfast and did some looking around. Registered at Babies R Us and got Brayden's Christmas outfit and his Christmas eve P.J.'s. Then we were exhausted and it was time to pick up Brayden. Jim took a nap and I went to get him. He was still sleeping and so I got a short nap too. All in all it was fun to get some great uninterrupted conversation time with my husband but we are very glad to be home with our son and our own bed. I guess we are just not big city lots of action kind of people. You could say that we like the simple small town life of Salem and we sure think our life is a wonderful life.

Marriage

So, this week was a rough week. Not for us personally but just learning of people we are close to getting divorced. 3 to be exact. One is Jim's uncle. The only Christian uncle he has. Then we learned that his cousin (from the same family) is heading that way. And then I talked to a friend that I have stayed in touch with since high school and she is already divorced. I couldn't figure out why I couldn't get ahold of her and finally she called me back. It was hard hearing things like that. But, as Jim and I sat on the couch just going why, how. We reiterated to each other our dedication to each other. That that won't happen to us and that we will always work on our marriage and do whatever we have to to make it work. It was also interesting that my bible study this week was on divorce and how as Christians we should treat those who have been divorced. It was a great study. It opened my eyes a lot on how to love people even more, especially those going through such a hard time.
Well, we are praying that each of these families will come to reconciliation.

Thanksgiving and Snow

So, Thaksgiving was nice and very relaxing. We were at Jim's parents house which was a first for us for the holidays. They just don't usually host Thanksgiving. Jim did his annual Turkey day football game and Brayden and I enjoyed the Macy's parade. It was a very laid back day. Then of course the day after I went and did the traditional shopping with my mom and sister. We always have a good time. It was fun. Jim and Brayden met up with us later and Brayden sat on Santa's lap for the first time and loved it. He was telling Santa all kinds of fun things. I also was able to get him the train set that Jim and I wanted to get him for Christmas. So, other than stocking stuffers I think he is done. We had a great time getting our Tree on Saturday and Brayden was a blast giving us his opinon on which one we should cut down. This holiday season is so fun with him. He is just enjoying everything so much. He is such an expressive child.
Then on Sunday they started to call for snow. Now, we LOVE SNOW at our house. But, in Oregon they say it will snow and then it never does. So, I was very pessimistic that it was going to happen. But sure enough we woke up Monday morning with Snow. It was great. Brayden thought it was a little cold to touch and didn't want much to do with it but liked watching it out the window. Then on Tuesday when it snowed again even more and his uncle didn't have school he thought it was pretty cool to throw snowballs. He even has taken on some of my Canadian words and says Tuke. Today is cold but the snow is gone for now. We will see if we get it back again this year. That would sure be fun.

Gratitude

As I sit here in a warm house with a full tummy and a happy toddler. I can't help but be so grateful for all I have. I am so truly blessed. The Lord has given me so much. A husband who works hard so I can stay home and take care of our child. A wonderful home that is warm and dry. A great husband who loves me and our child so much. Family close by that are helpful and caring. A wonderful child who brings me great joy everyday. Friends. A great country where I can go to my wonderful church and worship. Food on my table and clothes and everything I need. It makes me think of this verse in Matthew 10
Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground outside your Father's care. And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. 31 So don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows. God cares so much for us. Make sure to take time during this very special time of year and thank the Lord for what he has given you.

My Little soldier

This is Brayden out at the firing range with Jim. I took him out there while he was at drill. Brayden still talks about it and had such a good time. He is total boy.

Pictures

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Halloween

So, I must say that Halloween has never been my favorite holiday. But, wow. When you have children and see them light up about stuff it sure makes it fun. This is the first year Brayden has gone trick or treating and we just did a couple houses. (it was freezing here) He dressed like a lion and was supper cute. Then we went to the church for Family fun night and it was so fun. He played games and everywhere he went he was winning candy and watching other kids seeing there costumes. It was fun. Then we went upstairs and sang songs and just had a great night. I can't wait to see what Thanksgiving and Christmas hold this year. I am sure they will be even more fun.

Little man

So, Brayden continues to amaze us with how fast he is growing up. Last night some friends came over and they have a 9 month old. Brayden just loved him. He played with him, made faces at him and just laughed and helped with him. I am praying that all this continues when little Riley comes. This morning while getting ready to go and clean a house Brayden was jumping off the bed. The last time he did it he didn't land right. He hurt his foot in some fashion I still don't know if it is his foot or toe. But, he was hurt and couldn't walk. So, since I can't carry him (doctors orders) we were stuck. I called Jim and he said to give it some time and see how he was doing but that we should just stay home and not try and clean. Which was good cause I didn't know how I would get him in the van and out at her house. He is doing better now. Still limping which breaks my heart to see him hobbling. But, we have advanced from being cats. (yes that is how we were getting around) We did a lot of low key stuff this morning and I am hoping that after nap it is just all better. It is hard to see your very active child not able to jump and run around like usual. Well, I am off to have a nap.

Ultrasound

Well today was the day. We went for our ultrasound. It was so exciting because Jim was here this time. He was amazed at all you could see and he could point stuff out. He actually was the one that said "It's a girl" and he was right. Yes, that is right we are having a girl. I am excited and nervous. You get used to the way things work with one sex and Brayden is such a joy. But, I know we will have so many wonderful and joyful times with our little Riley. Yep, her name will be Riley Leanne. So, we are happy and all looked good so we are feeling so truly blessed.

Thoughts

So, lately I have been having some interesting thoughts. Like Capital punishment, how do I believe? Modesty, I dress modestly but just read an article in Focus on the Family about it and am even more cautious about it. T.V. and kids. I am against to much but wow the thought of how it also affects a childs behavior is interesting.
We were also asked in Sunday school this week to think of how we want our child/children to be as adults. And how is our parenting now affecting that. Are we doing well to achieve those goals? Should be an interesting thought.
Anyway this week is nice. Not to much going on. Well, except we find out on Thursday how our little one is doing and if all goes well we shall find out the sex. Jim and I also get to go to dinner tonight. It is a business thing but still dinner out alone. Brayden is doing well and is doing good in the nursery for Hearts at home and 2 services at church. I am so excited about Hearts at home. I love my group and the study is great.
Thank you God for all my blessings!!

Home

Well, we made it. We are home. We moved home on Wednesday and it wasn't quite ready for us but we are here. We didn't have any food or dishes in the house but we slept in our own beds. It was nice. Since then the kitchen is completely put together and the office is done (I am still typing on the floor but it is painted) And we have candles lite and it smells good. We don't have doors on the bedrooms or bathrooms but you know who cares. They will go in this week. We still have some painting to do but otherwise just minor stuff. Jim is relaxing and Brayden is doing great. He doesn't whine as much and he is sleeping great. It is nice. Next week we find out how our little one is doing and hopefully the sex. We are in my favorite time of year. I just love fall. The changing of the leaves, the smells, the cooler weather. Just all of it is so wonderful. I am also feeling more like myself. Less stressed and just more relaxed. Thank you God for all the wonderful blessings you have given me. Oh and I also started a Moms bible study at our church this week. (Hearts at home) It was the first week but I loved it and am so excited about it. Brayden even did good in the nursery. Isn't God so good all the time? I sure think so.

Never Leaving!!

So, I am so tired. I am tired of remodeling. Everything looks beautiful but isn't done yet. Jim is painting like crazy to try and get us in and I am just not feeling like I am helping very much. Our little one is sick and up at night. (found out today he has an ear infection) And so him and I are exhausted and when we get to our house to work he just hangs on me and cries. I feel so torn. I just want to sit at my parents house and hold him and yet feel so guilty for not helping Jim. To top that off we sold my car so I am driving my dads really big old one. (We call it a boat) And we are trying to find a van for me. Yes, we think we have decided to join the ranks of mini-van owners. So, please pray for thankfulness that I have wonderful parents that are allowing us to stay indefinatly and patience that yes everything will get done. Some days I wonder.

Remodeling

So as most of you know we are in the process of remodeling. We are coming to the end and it is all coming together nicely. Jim arrives home tomorrow so we survived yet another deployment (although he was stateside this time just far away) But I have realized once again something about myself. I work very hard and keep a clean house and do a lot in a day, however, I was over at the house tonight and most of the day painting trim. Yep, that is were I become insane. I am a Type A personality. Not to the degree that I can't play with my child or things can't get dirty, but when it comes to painting and yard work. I think the reason that I don't do well with those things is that I can't get them perfect. I hate leaving the yard if there is one weed. I don't like it if the paint isn't perfect, at least if I am the one painting. If Jim is doing it, it is fine to have some parts that aren't quite right. And no I don't go to other peoples homes and pick apart how they painted or any of that. All that to say that once again we have lots of painting to do and I am so thankful that Jim will be home to do it. I am also pregnant and enjoy my sleep and with all these projects am finding it hard to sleep cause I wake up and start making lists of all that has to be done. Then I don't want to nap because there is to much to do. So, Thank you God for husbands that do enjoy this sort of work and are productive at it. And Thank you God for a wonderful husband who will be home tomorrow.

More bad news

Okay so we thought Jim being hurt, me spotting and just having the stress of him being gone and remodeling was enough for one week, but I guess we were wrong. Jim called this morning and was given word that a guy that used to be in our unit and transfered to the C.A. (Civil Affairs) unit in our building was one of the soldiers killed yesterday in the bombing in Kabul. He was a good friend to Jim and they have known each other for awhile. We have many friends over there, Jim more than me, and this was hard for him. He has lost so many friends in this war. But you know what. He is proud to have served and would head back tomorrow if it meant keeping all our friends,family and all people safe from the terrible people who do these acts. I have been incredibly emotional this week just with the flags at the park and all the stuff about 9-11, Please don't forget what our men and women are doing (and are proud to do) over there and at home. They are true heros. Again I say it. Honey, I am so proud of you. You are an amazing man and I am so proud of your dedication to us and to your country. Thank you!!

Scary

I started spotting yesterday. I woke up and was so scared. I don't want anything to happen to this baby. So, first thing in the morning I called the doctor and they said it sounded just fine but if it would make me feel better I could come in and hear the heartbeat. So, off I went. We found it and it seems fine. I haven't spotted since and am feeling fine. So I am praying that that is the last of it and all is well. They said it can be because of an infection so my midwife will check that out for me next week. Poor Jim though he said he was ready to barf waiting to hear from me. He is hurting. His knees are all swollen and sore from all the PT they are doing. I hope he can just get through and then get home where I can take care of him. It is hard when he is so far away.
Brayden is starting to get ornery. I will be glad when Jim is home to help and to wrestle with him. I think he misses the rough play when Jim is away.
We miss you Jim.

Life changes

Do you ever feel like you don't fit in? Like what everyone else is doing isn't what you feel is important?
I felt that today. As you know I am staying with my parents while our house is remodeled. And everyone here has gone back to school. So, today some ladies at church were having a play group and I thought I should take Brayden. Most of my close friends work so it would be good to get together with other stay at home mom's and there kids. Brayden played well and seemed to have fun and it was a nice time but when I am with certain women I feel like I don't fit in. I don't scrapbook like they do, I don't do as much as they do, and that I don't hang out or call people as much as they do. I don't know. I guess it is an insecurity I have. I love being with my child and having a few close friends. I love that my life isn't full of constant goings. (except for lately) I love that family is important to me. I love that my husband loves me enough to work hard so I can stay home. My life is good so very good. And there is so much to be thankful for. So, God why am I so sad today.

Here we are

Well I said I was going to work harder at updating my blog so here it goes. This has been yet another crazy week. It started on Monday with Jim packing up and heading out late Monday night. It was actually nice having him leave that night. Brayden stayed at my parents over night and we didn't have to wake up at 2 a.m. to get to the airport in time. Then Tuesday morning I woke up and cleaned up the house and cleaned the bathrooms (something I do everytime Jim leaves) And went and got Brayden. Found out at dinner that night that my dad (also our contractor) was going to be tearing apart our house then next day so we should move out. So, I packed and put as much stuff in the garage as I could that night and then next morning finished it off. Brayden and I loaded up and headed here. So, we are now comfy cozy at my parents house and everyday our home seems different. It is so much better to be here than at our place. It is crazy over there. Brayden was so fussy and whiny at our house and I think it was just that he knew things were changing and Jim was leaving and he didn't like watching toys being moved and put in the garage. So, even though it is noisier here and very busy. (We painted moms living room yesterday) it is peaceful and we have a kitchen to use. So, again thanks mom and dad for having us.

Wow Time flies

So, I logged on and couldn't believe how long it has been since I posted anything. So much has been going on I am barely able to get to the computer. Let's see. We have gone to the zoo, taken Brayden to a baseball game. We have been making decisions for our house remodel which is underway outside and getting ready to take place inside. I have taken over our FRG group with the army and have had only 2 weeks to prepare a family day which will take place today. It will be fun and I did have help which I don't know that I could have done without. So, we will pray all goes off with out a hitch. Jim is crazy busy between work, Army, helping pick stuff for the house and preparing to leave again. Oh and yes I am still pregnant and tired. I am starting to get more energy and that is good because my 2 year old is a busy boy and I feel so terrible when I can't keep up. Brayden loved the zoo and I can't wait to take him back. I do think that we will have to head to the aquarium as well cause he was really taken with the underwater animals. And the monkeys that he had been talking about so much he could have cared less about. We also were there at a great time cause the elephants were out and struting their stuff which made it fun for Brayden to watch. Pregnancy wise I am feeling great other than being tired and doing great. It was great to hear babies heart last time. Since I always feel good pregnant it always helps me to believe I really do have someone growing inside me. Well, I am off to finish my salad for the BBQ and try and get a rest in before heading to Portland.

Changes

Well tonight is a big night for us. We brought in Brayden's big boy bed. Yep my little baby has shed the crib and is right now laying in bed watching his stars. It is exciting to see that he is growing up and yet hard. Time goes so fast. He is talking more and more and before I know it he will be in school. Being a parent I truly know what my mom was saying when she said time goes so fast once you have kids. I get it mom. We have also started a mind of our own. He really knows now what he does and does not want to do and he lets me know. Time outs are becoming a more frequent thing at our home.
We also tonight discovered that our neighbor passed away. He was a great man and so wonderful with Brayden. A very good neighbor who got sick with cancer and just couldn't fight anymore. This is the second neighbor in a matter of months that has passed away from cancer. We are really hoping this isn't a new trend.
I also met with another cabinet man today and I really liked him and his knowledge of cabinets. I am hoping his bid comes in where we can afford to go with him. I am excited about our remodel but also going to be glad when it is done.
Well, I am tired. I am off to bed.

Official

So, it is official now or at least it feels more offical. We are expecting. We have known for awhile but I went to the doctor on Friday. I have felt great, other than the occaional bout of Nausea and the very extreme tiredness. All is well. I have noticed keeping up with Brayden is getting harder. He can go and go and I don't know how I did it and didn't always take a nap when he did. It hasn't even been an option lately. He naps I nap. I am just so wiped out. Hopefully that will pass as we have a lot going on. We are remodeling here soon and thankfully my parents have invited us to stay with them. It will just be hard since we would be confined to the back of the house and cooking and naps would be difficult. It will be great since Jim will be gone again anyway. And we may take a trip to visit him, he will be gone 5 weeks. But, you know he won't be in combat and I will get to talk to him so I guess I can't complain. And he will get to be here for the rest of the pregnancy and the birth this time. He is so excited about experiencing it. It is funny and cute.
Well, Brayden is in bed and I have a few minutes before Jim comes home. I am off to finish my book.

Simple life

I started my day out a little unthankful. Something that isn't me. I am so thankful for so much in my life that it usually doesn't leave room for the not so thankful ones. But, there I was gripping to myself how our house needs to be painted and oh the work that goes into the remodel and how that will upset our life and don't even get me started on the grass. What a mess. Not to mention our son adores his father (what's wrong with that. Nothing except my husband has been so in and out lately with the Army) As the day progressed I got thankful again. Like this afternoon when it was so hot and we have air conditioning. Then I was watching Love comes softly on the Hallmark channel and I thought how great there lives were with the simplicity. But wow am I ever so much more blessed. I have a house that keeps heat and cold out. I don't have to worry about wild animals, I don't have to worry about marrying a stranger if something were to happen to my husband. And don't get me started on washing machines, running water and electricity. Thank you Lord. As much as I love the outdoors and camping and nature. I love my cozy little house that has so much. Thanks

Fun with Friends

So, we have had this dinner scheduled all week. And Jim ended up having to stay gone for an extra couple of days. I wasn't sure I should go with out him but called and said if it was okay Brayden and I could still come. It was so much fun. Our friends are such good hosts and another couple whom are probably our closest friends were also there. The kids played so well and Brayden just thought all of their son's toys were so cool. Tonight I am thankful for fellow Christian friends and parents who really show Christ in how they live. Thanks for your hospitality and friendship.

Brayden's 2

Well, today my little boy is 2. I can't believe it. It has gone so fast. Yesterday we had his birthday party and we had a really good time. All week when I asked him if he wanted his friends to come over for a birthday party he would say no. He was fine if they were just coming over to play but not for a party. Well, he handled the spotlight very well. He loves all his new toys and he loved getting to eat his dinner at his new picnic table with his friends. He loved his cake and made sure to thank everyone. He woke up this morning and we were walking past the living room on our way to the kitchen and he saw his new tractors and his eyes got big and he said Mama. Like it wasn't a dream, it was all real.

Sleep

So, isn't it just the way it goes. They stay up later than normal and then wake up early and are whiny, clingy. That is how our day started. But we cuddled and then Jim got up. He didn't sleep well either. Which is understandable due to the fireworks. Ever since war he has had a hard time with them. They sound just like weapons. So, he hasn't slept well the last few nights but last night he had dreams and I knew they weren't all good but a couple seemed funny. See Jim talks in his sleep. He acts out in his sleep. Last night he sat up laughing. And at one point he was laying there holding his pillow rocking. He has also put me in a head lock and elbowed my nose several times. And it wasn't from rolling over. It is quite funny. But anyway he woke up exhausted as well. But, the day went on and things got better. One of the things I am so thankful for with being able to stay home and raise our child is that I know him and his needs. So, since he was tired most of the morning I could tell when it was nap time because my usually well behaved and responsive child becomes disobediant and time outs are laughed at and stern voices are histerical. So, we quickly did lunch and off for a nap he went. I was able to get the bathrooms cleaned and the kitchen done and a little rest during his nap. (we are getting ready for a birthday party) My mom also took Brayden for a couple hours after nap so that I could do the costco thing and some other errands. I love being with my son and shopping isn't a problem but wow can I go when I am by myself.
I am off to enjoy my comfy bed and soft pillow.
Good Night!

A wonderful 4th of July

I want to start off by saying thanks to all our service men and women both now and from in the past. You have sacrificed so that we can have a wonderful and free life here in America. Thanks for that. Honey, you are the best thanks for the part you play.
Today was a nice relaxing day. We went to a parade that was very small. But, it was Brayden's first and he enjoyed it. He also discovered the throw down pop things. He loves those and continues to ask for more. We came home and took a nice long nap and then went to my parents for a bonfire and roasting of hot dogs. And ended the evening with fireworks in the street. It was so much fun and Brayden asked to go to bed he was so tired. But he truly loved the fireworks and only a couple times got scared. He would get down and help daddy pick out which one was going to be next.
Happy 4th of July and Happy Birthday America!!!

Life as a military wife

So today is an exciting day. First off Jim and I are going on a date. We had one scheduled last week but when Brayden got sick we didn't feel good about leaving him. Even if it was with my sister and mom is around the corner. So, we stayed home. So, we are going to dinner, shopping for Brayden's birthday and maybe a movie. I think that is dependant on if Brayden spends the night with Grandma or not. We also scheduled a day at the zoo. We have been wanting to take Brayden for a long time and just haven't gotten there. So we scheduled a week day where Jim would skip the office. (it is nice being self employed) Well, all was good as Brayden and I got to the library for story time, then I got the call. Okay you must all understand. Ever since Jim was gone overseas I get nervous when the words Battalion called or I have some bad news are told to me. So, the first thing he says I have some bad news, Battalion called. My heart always stops and I hold my breath. But all it was is that he has to go out of town for a few days and won't be able to do the zoo. He will still be here for camping and Brayden's birthday and he will be in our time zone and all that so it is fine. So, anyway tonight we will be discussing his wording on when he has to leave. He cracks me up. As long as he isn't going overseas to a dangerous local I am fine. I mean yes it isn't the most fun but he is safe and sound.

Sad, Please Pray

Yesterday was a sad day. I mean it didn't start out sad. My friend from Portland came down to visit and we had a nice time. Brayden had been having bad dreams I think cause he was crying out in his sleep and he fell asleep on the floor while we were visiting. Not at all like him. He usually doesn't stop moving. So, he didn't have a long enough nap but held up pretty well. We were able to enjoy playing outside in the sand box and little swimming pool as it wasn't as hot. Jim was working late so we were invited to my parents for dinner. Mom bathed Brayden and I cleaned up dinner. A nice change every once in awhile. Then we came home. Thats when I got the call. I checked the messages and there was one from my dear friend Miranda. We have been friends for oh probably 15 years. We used to be inseperable but life has changed that some. We are still friends just not like we used to. But, she sounded upset and she asked if I could call her cause I would understand. Something had happened in her family. So, I said hi to Jim and put Brayden to bed. I called her and Roger her brother is getting divorced. It is so sad. His wife has just decided they have to many problems and she doesn't want counseling and doesn't want to forgive and move forward. They have been married almost 5 years and no one has cheated or anything. So, please pray for restoration of their marriage. I am praying and since they live around the corner I am going to offer prayer. Please pray that I also say the right things. Open her heart to counseling and restoration. The more prayer we can get the better. She has already moved out and her parents don't want her to talk to him because, get this, THEY don't want the emotional rollercoaster. We have to cover them in prayer. We need to fight for there marriage especially if they have given up. Marriage is such a disposable thing these days and as christians we have to do what we can to help our fellow believers when they are down and unable to hear God talking to them. Thanks for your prayers.

April 28, 2006 Brayden's first offical Beach Trip

We decided to venture out from the norm. We usually go to Lincoln City because it is close and we know what is there. But this time Jim said let's head to Cannon Beach. As I had never been there I thought it was a great idea. So, we arrived Friday afternoon and it was beautiful. Sunny and clear a little windy but all of us who live in Oregon know that is just what going to the beach is all about. We checked into our inn. WOW. It was so cool. It was very cozy and just beautiful. They gave Brayden a shovel and pail and we set off to the beach. He loved it. He was digging and dumping like crazy. He thought is was great. After walking and playing for awhile we headed off to a neat resturant, where we discovered Brayden likes Asparagus. Yeah. Once more our little one surprises us with how much he likes veggies. After dinner we headed back to the hotel and walked on some of the trails. Nothing exciting really just beautiful trails in the center of all the rooms. They lead up to a man made waterfall and pond. There were some fish in there and Brayden thought they were cool. Lots of people also brought their dogs which Brayden also thinks is great. We spent most of the weekend hearing "ease, ease" as we have taught him to ask before petting peoples dogs. At bedtime Brayden slept in the 2nd Queen bed. It took him a little longer to fall asleep but he did great. I didn't sleep well because I worried that he would fall out. Which he did not.
Saturday we woke up early to a beautiful morning. It wasn't even windy. After we did the continental breakfast thing we headed down to the beach. Brayden once again loved it and I took him in the water and also found some starfish and sea things. He was gentle and thought it was cool. He had no fear poking them. We came back to the hotel wet, cold and very happy. After we got cleaned up we headed into town. We got Brayden a kite and then it started to rain. So we ate an early lunch and headed back to the hotel to watch movies and take a nap. It rained the rest of the day so we just ate dinner and played in the hotel.
Sunday we went out to breakfast and down to the beach again for awhile. No wind again. We tried to fly Bryden's kite. Or I should say Jim tried, bless his heart. It did not work. So, after awhile we went and packed up and headed home to a beautiful warm day and a bbq with some friends.

My week

Okay so my week has been so wonderful. Nothing spectacular has happened, except that today Jim told me he respects what I do, I got a pedicure, and Brayden is offically sick.
So earlier in the week we went to look at a few houses on the HBA tour of homes. It was fun to look at extravigant houses and go wow that would be cool, but then I came home and was just overwhelmed with thankfulness. I love my home. It isn't fancy or extravagant but it is home and my 2 favorite boys live here. Who could ask for more. Then last night we watched a movie called "End of the Spear" It was so good. It really made me stop and think of my life and if I could or would do what those women did. And am I that devoted to Christ and what he calls us to do? It really has made me ponder that.
While we were watching the movie Brayden started coughing and woke himself up. That continued and so we ended up having him sleep in our bed with me and Jim slept on the couch. (Don't feel bad for him. He loves our couch it is very comfotable) We had a rough night but he seemed okay this morning. So, off to work he went with Daddy and I went in search of a swimsuit, which I didn't find, and a pedicure. It was wonderful. They had a massage chair and I almost fell asleep. After I met my men at Old Navy where Brayden was really running low. So, I brought him home and took his Temp. Sure enough he had a fever. So, we are monitoring that and just doing a lot of cuddling. He is watching baseball with daddy right now. So, we are hopping he feels better soon. It is so hard watching your child feel yuck.
Good Night.

Park Etiquette

Okay so I need to vent. As I have said before Tuesday nights is softball nights. Jim plays double headers and Brayden and I try to make it to at least the first game. Well, tonight I was watching a friends little girl as well. So, Brayden and Lilli were over on the play toys and first off it looked like some kids were going to get into a fight. These kids wouldn't get off the swings. So, the little kids went and got bigger kids and the bigger kids went and got even bigger ones. Now you must understand. I am the only adult around. So, I stepped in and asked nicely if the kids could please get off so the other kids could have a turn. After some aguement as to why they shouldn't they did get off and peace once again prevailed. However not for long. These little boys were running around with there toy guns. Now I have read Bringing up boys and Wild at Heart. I also have a husband who is in the military. So, I understand boys and guns. I just have a problem when they are shooting each other. Now please tell me if I am wrong here. But why do they have to shoot them at real people. Why not go hunting for animals and pretend bad guys. Anyway, this group of boys kept pretending to shoot Brayden. So, I said hey please don't do that. We don't shoot people. This little boy was probably 6 or 8 and argued with me as to why it didn't matter because they weren't really guns. I again said please don't shoot at him. He isn't playing with you anyway. So, that happened several times, with the same group of boys. Again no parents around but me. Then the little girl Lilli I was watching was playing on the slide. She was watching 3 big girls playing tag and thought it looked fun. They said hey you want to play and of course Lilli did. I was wondering how it was going to work as this game of tag was on the play set and if you were on the play set you were safe. Well, Lilli is 3 and there was no way she was going to be able to reach through the floor to touch them. But I let it go. I mean what do you say when someone wants to play that badly and is being included. But as fast as they offered they recinded. And I don't mean kindly or anything. They were just plain cruel. "You can't play with us" snotty like. And they didn't stop there they said it again 3 times. Lilli said that isn't nice. Now tell me. How come a 3 year old gets it and grade schoolers don't? So, Lilli got off the slide and came over by me. I knelt to hug her. Which she declined. I then proceeded to try and get her and Brayden to come over to the bleechers and watch their daddies play. Which neither wanted to do. What gets me is that through all this I am the only adult at the park there, watching kids. It also makes me pray even harder that I will raise a kind boy. Now don't get me wrong there were nice kids there too. A 4 year old girl gave up her swing and her older sister helped Lilli onto it and the little one pushed Lilli very nicely. There were some young boys who let Brayden go first down the slide. I think what is even worse was that the most disrespectful kids were kids from our team. I just pray that we teach Brayden correctly and that he always has as sensitive heart as he has now. Yes, I do want him to be a MAN, but a man who loves God first and in so doing he treats others as Jesus would treat them.
Well, off to bed. I am done venting.

Boise

Praise God!! The trip was wonderful. Brayden did wonderful on the trip. The drive was great. Everytime we stopped he would say "NEE". He calls my grandma Nanny. But most often it comes out as NEE. He couldn't have remembered her, it has been a year since we had seen them, but we have been talking about the trip and the long ride in daddy's truck and that he would get to see his great grandma and grandpa. Well needless to say as soon as we got there he couldn't wait to see them. When we saw them he hugged both of them and couldn't get enough of Nanny. She is a wonderful grandma and is the kind that gets down on the floor and plays with you. It probably helps that she is only 4'10. So, she isn't very intimidating to a child. She has a kind face and it just shows how much she enjoys kids. We went to dinner with them and Aunt Myrna whom Brayden thought was so funny. He would drive his new tractor on the table and she would make a face and he was laughing so hard I thought he was going to cry. It made Auntie Myrna's day. The rest of the trip anytime he saw her he would smile and do a little laugh.
So, for the wedding. The reason for the trip. My brother and sister watched Brayden in the hotel and we were off. It is so nice having reliable people whom you completely trust to watch you child. I knew they would call if they had any problems and they never do because Brayden adores them. The wedding was beautiful. Maureen looked stunning and the building alone was amazing. We had fun catching up with family I hadn't seen in a long time and finally called it a night at 11.
Saturday was fun because we didn't have anywhere to be until afternoon. And Boise is a great walking city. So, the boys headed off to Costco (boys being my brothers,dad and husband) and Brayden, Jodi and I headed off to Saturday market. They have a really cool fountain in the middle and Brayden had fun walking around and getting close to the water but not going in. I eventually hooked up with the boys and Jodi went off shopping with the women. I am not as girly as she is so shopping isn't as fun for me as it is her. (more on that another time)
In the afternoon we drove down to Mt. Home for a BBQ at my Aunt and Uncles place and had a great time. Brayden wanted to spend all his time on the Tractors and playing with the kittens. I hope someday we can afford property. I love being out in the wide open space. It was beautiful there. I never really thought of Idaho as a beautiful place, because where we live is so lush and green. But, it really is nice. The BBQ was great and we got to know Maureen's husband better. Bryce is a wonderful guy and we are so glad to have him be apart of our family.
We headed home Sunday and all went well. Brayden cried and was upset leaving Nanny. But, I tried to reassure him that we will see her soon and she got to go on an airplane. I was nice for Brayden to get to know my Aunts and some of my cousins. I look forward to seeing them again soon.

Vacation

Today we are heading out to Idaho to see my family. My cousin is getting married tomorrow. I haven't seen most of my family for over a year. They are going to be so amazed at how big Brayden is and how smart and just all of it. I am excited for Brayden to get a chance to hang out with my grandparents. They are wonderful and I am so close to them. This is also the first long road trip with Brayden. We went up to Cannon beach a couple months ago and that was only a couple hours. So, this should be interesting. I have lots for him to do and we will just play lots of road games and whatnot. I hope he does well. I want to be able to do more traveling with him. I grew up going back and forth to Canada so have always tolerated the car. My mom said that I used to fall asleep before we even got out of the driveway at my grandparents. As nice as it would be to have Brayden sleep lots I also want him to sleep tonight. So, hopefully he is just taken with all the sights.
Well, it is early. I should go back and try and sleep some more. I am just so excited.

Softball

Tuesday nights is softball nights at our house. All in all it is a fun time. Last year was hard as Brayden was still crawling and so he couldn't keep up with the other kids and it was hard. This year he is running around and climbing on everything and he does actually sit and watch occasionally. Tonight was fun. Both games (it is a double header leaque) were early enough that we stayed for most of the night. Brayden comes home so exhausted that he sleeps great. Jim had a rough night. What I saw of the game, was a lot of fly balls. And the first game he was catcher, which he hates. It is fun for me because I get to talk with some other moms and I do meet new people. Tonight was another Kristin which I thought was cool. So, it is a lot of fun and I don't dread Tuesday nights like I used to.
We also found out that the appraiser is coming to do our house tomorrow which is great for the refi. So, that is going to be almost done.
Brayden also got a haircut today. Not his first but his first fade. So now he really looks like daddy and a big boy.

My Husband

So, my husband is wonderful. I love him so much. He has made my life wonderful. I mentioned before how he is a solider in the Army reserve. He is the acting first Sergent right now and doing a great job. This weekend we went to an Army dinner and it was wonderful. We had so much fun hanging out with the other guys and there wives/girlfriends. I always enjoy the things we do with the military.
But, my husband has given me the life I have always dreamt of. I am able to stay home with our son and we have a great house in a great neighborhood. I am just overwhelmed with how great life is. Thanks Jim for working so hard so I can have my dream.

Having fun

So, Have I ever mentioned how much fun my life is. I mean yes there are days of stress or frustration but I truly feel blessed for all I have and am able to do.
So yesterday our concrete was laid. We had a slab laid on the side of our house. It runs the length (when I figure out how to upload pics I will) It will be used as a dog run or Rv pad at some point but right now it will be great for swimming pools and sandboxes and bikes and just whatever sounds fun. Our grass is being sprayed on the 20th and then we will be done with the yard which will be nice. We are looking forward to no dirt. Although Brayden has thoroughly enjoyed being able to drive his dump trucks and excavators and having Babop come with the BopCat.
Today we are off to see my sister launch a rocket. It should be fun.

Cleaning

I clean a house every week. But, the last two weeks I have cleaned a rental for a lady. Today was terrible. The apartment wasn't bad but Brayden was not helpful. I think the problem was he was tired. He had a late night last night and then he woke up earlier than normal today. So, needless to say we were whinny and needed more than normal amount of timeouts. Not what I enjoy doing. I prayed that if I was being unreasonable I would mellow and that God could just help me get done and Brayden would stop whining. Thankfully we were done soon after.
Life is good here. Jim arrived home a week ago and we have already had our regular "coming home fight". They happen everytime. We are used to living separate lives and doing things our own way. Not a fun part of the job but it happens. We have started getting them out of the way right away. That way we can get back to normal faster.
Jim is 30 now. He is doing fine with it now. It was hard at first but I think he realized that he is still young at heart.
God is always revealing himself to me. Through Brayden,Jim and wonderful Christian and non that I meet or hear of.
God is good and oh so faithful. I love my son so much and just can't imagine having to knowingly put him through what my lord went through. Thank you God for loving me that much.
For Now,
Kristin

Life mission

I clean a house on Mondays. I was dusting today and ran across this young man's mission statement. I read it and I told Brayden. I desire for you to have that kind of mission in life. It was all about honoring God, staying pure, honoring his parents. It just made me happy for his parents. Since I have become a mom the desire of my heart is to raise a son who loves God, loves him first. Makes choices in life that are honoring to him. I know that if Brayden does this his life will be great. I know his life will have hard times and he will have difficult choices to make but by following God first and for most he will have great peace in his life and that is all that matters.
So, my Mission statement for my life shall be:
To Love God first.
To follow his ways and honor him in all I do.
To always be thankful.
To Love my husband the way he needs to be loved.
To Love Brayden (and future children) the way Christ loves them.

Sick

So, yesterday we experienced something we haven't yet in our 2 years as parents. Brayden throwing up. Okay so it really started on Sunday night. It was terrible. I felt so helpless and terrible for our little one. He was fine when he went to bed and woke up throwing up. We gave him a bath and got everything cleaned up and then rocked and cuddled with him and then he went to bed. He started to cry so I went into get him and I picked him up and the threw up all over me, him and the floor. Thank goodness my husband was home. I took Brayden and myself off to the shower and he cleaned up the floor. So, after cleaning up we once again rocked and cuddled and just relaxed. Then off to bed he went. He was asleep and once more threw up. Thankfully that was the last. We felt terrible for him. Thankfully he drifted off to sleep and slept the rest of the night. But as for me. I woke up at 3:58 to the phone ringing. I jumped up and got it. It was our friends who were in labor. They needed me to come and stay with there little one. So, off I went. Brayden sleeping and so was daddy. Right after they headed off to the hospital there little girl woke up. Knowing mommy and daddy were headed to the hospital to have her baby brother. So, we headed back to our house so I could be with my little one. Who wasn't sick but was wanting mommy.
So, needless to say yesterday I was tired and ready for bed when 9 o'clock came.
All is well today. It is sunny again. Our friends little one arrived quickly and easier than the first and we are all healthy.

Saturday

Okay so today was a great day, other than the incredibly early wake up call. Brayden woke up at 4:53. Yes that is am. We played, ate and just hung out until Jim woke up. Then off to Home Depot for Jim. We worked outside till 10:30 and then had lunch. Crazy I know but when you are up so early lunch comes early as well. I was exhausted so I took a nap along with Brayden. Brayden also had a day of firsts. First bloody nose (while wrestling with dad of course) and then tonight we showed him about Oreo's and dunking them in milk. Note; make sure to do it before bathtime. We didn't and he ended up very messy. He thought it was fun to let the pieces sit in his milk awhile before pulling them out. Brayden went to bed early and we feel like we have had a good day full of accomplishments.

The Park

So, today Brayden and I went to the park. He was having a No day. As anyone with a toddler will have experienced. Do you want to go to storytime? NO, Do you want to go to the park? NO. Well in the end I won. We went to the park and met a friend and her grandson. It was a beautiful sunny day and the boys had fun. We had to wait to leave because we were blocked in due to the ambulance being there. But, I planned ahead and had made Brayden a lunch. So, we ate lunch at the park and waited. This afternoon Brayden is excited to see BaBop (grandpa) He wants to ride on the bobcat with grandpa as he preps our yard. This is a great life.

My Life At Home

Well today I thought I would jump in and start a blog. I love internet stuff and thought this would be a great way to remember what life is like staying home with a toddler and taking care or a husband. I am a stay at home mom of one great little boy. I started staying home when Brayden was born. I have loved my job since the day it started almost two years ago. Brayden has been a blessing since the day he came. See he came early and ended up in NICU. Which was very scary and all, but ended up being a blessing since my husband is in the Army and wasn't home. So, by the time Jim arrived it was almost time to go home. So, it was wonderful being able to come home as a family. Jim left again two weeks later and Brayden and I figured out life as mom and son.